The lasting of a “Beautiful Relationship” is “Respect and Honor”. The enduring thing about a ‘marriage’ is “putting Jesus first” and love, respect, honor, romance and a blessed life will follow. Love can come back to life only if you want it to. the smell of roses fills the air with emptiness and the presence of laughter fills the heart with love.
How do you value your “Relationship and Marriage”? Ask yourself this question, is it just about me or is it about us? Are they growing on each other, rather than on each other? Are you telling yourself that I no longer feel that butterfly in my stomach that used to make me feel like I couldn’t live or breathe without him or her? Or maybe you don’t feel that the other party is as attractive as it used to be. Or it could be that the time you spend in bed doesn’t feel the same anymore. Well, I have good news for all of you.
Start learning to appreciate each other. Have proactive communication, hold hands when you go for a walk or sit down. Validate each other with your words, go on date nights just the two of you, to keep the attraction flowing. Pick days to do things you enjoy with the kids, let everyone eat at the table so you can talk about life. Go back to memory lane and talk about what goes into making you both so happy. Dancing together brings romance to the relationship. Invite romance into your kitchen—it’s healthy for both of you. Let the children see that you love and value each other and when they are older they will do the same. Touching often keeps feelings alive Little things matter in your relationship.
Ladies listen to me and listen to me well. STOP acting like you’re too holy and pleasing your man, satisfying his physical needs; Because if you don’t, someone else will. Make your man feel wanted, valued and appreciated; make him want to come home and find the treasure he has at home. Carry him a love note from time to time in his shirt or pants pocket. Or send him a text and let him know how much you love and appreciate him. You could also hide some underwear in his work bag, so when he opens it at the office or where he works, he breaks into a big smile thinking that she still loves me. Leave a little note with him to let him know what you have planned for later when you get home. Men make her lady feel safe and validate her, meet her emotional needs while she meets her physical needs. Women are very emotional and love for these needs must be satisfied. If you know her emotionally, I promise she has no problem meeting you physically in your needs, and everything else will just fall into place.
Live life to the fullest, enjoy the moments with others. She loves like there’s no tomorrow, laugh out loud with each other. Life is beautiful, enjoy it while you can. Never take each other for granted and ask God to heal his wounds. I hope this article helps you see your partner beyond their scars, and best of all, learn to love each other through the eyes of Jesus Christ. “SMILE”