You may be wondering if women are capable of female ejaculation or what is commonly known as squirting or squirting and why many women have never done so. Let’s start by looking at some of the myths and nonsense out there about female ejaculation, and clear up some of the things guys have been asking about.
Is it true that squirting is some kind of weird thing that you can only see in porn movies?
In fact, the act of squirting can often be seen in porn movies. However, female ejaculation is real and not something made up by anyone. It’s a natural part of female sexuality, and most women who have ever ejaculated find it an overwhelmingly fantastic sexual experience. Female ejaculation can occur during or before orgasm. But the fact is that pornographic movies are a world full of exaggerations and false acts. In certain scenes, the women may be urinating.
Squirting women are actually urinating, right?
Well, squirting and peeing are two different things. Female ejaculation is not urine. It is a fluid that comes from the kidneys that passes through the paraurethral glands (often referred to as the female “prostrate glands” or G-spot area) it is a bit like the male sperm-carrying fluid but without the sperm content. This fluid is clear in color, does not smell or has a slightly sweet aroma, very different from the heavier, thicker fluid that is normally seen when a woman is “wet” or having an orgasm. This thicker, heavier fluid is actually vaginal discharge that lubricates and cleanses the vaginal walls as it comes out during sexual arousal.
However, one should keep in mind that unlike men, women can ejaculate and urinate at the same time, so it is best for women to pee first before stimulating their pleasure points down there.
Now, let’s get to the part that I understand many men are most interested in: how to make YOUR sexual partner experience female ejaculation?
Let me first warn you here. Once you train a woman to ejaculate, there is a high chance that she will want to continue to ejaculate quite frequently when you make love. As cool as it may seem to you right now, some women can give off a lot, and it can make quite a mess. So you may need to start keeping your towels close to the bed and rest it on them before you start.
Ok, this is how you can do this:
1. Don’t be disappointed if not much fluid comes out and don’t panic if a lot comes out. Different women ejaculate different amounts, from a small dribble to a big burst. One is not better than the other, it is just a function of your anatomy.
2. Delay your orgasm
The longer you delay his orgasm, the better the chances that you will succeed in making him come. This means lots of foreplay and sensual caresses.
3. Make him come with a “combined orgasm.”
After delaying your orgasm for a long time, you will have accumulated a large amount of fluid in your paraurethral (Skene’s) glands. When you do make her come, you want to build her up slowly and then push her over the edge quickly using a “combined orgasm,” stimulating both her clit and G-spot.
There are a few different ways to ensure that you make her cum hard and fast with a combined orgasm when the time is right, and using one of these methods is the surest way to achieve it.
So the only part left is: what is the best way to stimulate her into female ejaculation?
4. Use one of these proven female ejaculation positions
Some women ejaculate easily from many different positions, and will certainly get noticeable results in all three positions. Other women may only respond to one or two of them. Usually one of the first two will work just fine.
The first, which is usually very effective, is to use your tongue on her clitoris.
The key is to find a rhythm that drives her crazy. What she is looking for is an amount of direct stimulation to the tip of the clitoris that is beyond what she can comfortably handle. You need to maintain a lot of mental and emotional connection with her while doing this in order to reassure her that she can still be and that she can “take” it. You want to go just past the edge of it.
When you finally tell him it’s okay to let go, you may need to hold his hips still with your weight to keep him from squirming out of bed.
The key to making this method work is to insert a finger and massage your G-spot at the same time. Start with some lubricant or cream. The Nipple and Clitoral Stimulating Gel is fantastic as it increases sensitivity around the vaginal area and also makes it easier to insert your fingers into your vagina. In fact, you may feel the glands behind the g-spot fill up as the area under your fingers swells.
The second method works even more often and most women will react strongly to it. The key is hand position and movement. Rest on her back and ask her to lift her legs in the air, knees bent. Make a “hook” with your middle finger or with your middle and ring fingers. Put your finger(s) inside her, pointing towards her belly. In this position, you can place the palm of your hand over the top of her vagina and her clitoris.
Applying pressure with the palm of the hand on her clitoris, the movement is NOT from the inside out, but from the top down. As the fingers move up and down against the G-spot, the palm of the hand brushes against the clitoris.
NOTE: Use a LOT of lubricant for this, particularly between the palm and the vulva.
After delaying your orgasm as long as possible, you want to use this move quickly and firmly. Again, this may take her beyond the limit of the amount of pleasure she is used to dealing with, and she may need to verbally encourage her and help her by holding her hips down so she doesn’t squirm out. from the bed.
The final method is a bit more complicated, but it can be even more fun because it involves intercourse.
Ask him to stand on top of your penis, but with his back to your feet. She can be on her knees, but it can be more effective if she squats on top of you and then leans back on her palms so you penetrate her at an angle to hit the G-spot. After that, use one or both hands to stimulate her clitoris. When you feel ready to ejaculate, you may need to withdraw to unblock the duct.
The good news is that in terms of the “technical” and physical aspects, this is pretty much all you will need to know if you want a woman to experience female ejaculation.