Here’s a metaphor for the law of attraction. When you are baking cookies, you should not keep opening the oven door to see if they are done.
Or put another way, if you intend to grow an orange tree, you shouldn’t keep digging up the seeds to see if they have already sprouted.
Now, according to the law of attraction, if you are manifesting something, you have to do the work, do the meditations, whatever, and then let it go. Let nature do the rest.
If you keep checking to see how you are getting your results, you will screw it up.
How does this apply to seduction?
First, realize that the attraction occurs unconsciously. Logically, she cannot decide to be attracted to you any more than you can rationally choose which girls you would like to sleep with. (Everything else being equal).
Now this can be a difficult concept for many guys to understand. Girls are attracted to boys for completely different reasons than boys are attracted to girls.
When a guy sees a girl, he knows immediately if he likes her or not. It happens in a fraction of a second.
But when a girl sees a boy, she still doesn’t know. If you are physically attracted, it is just one piece of the puzzle. To truly feel deep attraction and emotional longing, she will need to interact with him.
Talk to him, try him a few times, maybe even spend some time away from him.
BUT (and this is crucial) just because it takes time for her to be attracted, this does NOT mean it is a conscious process.
It’s just unconscious, since you want to fuck that big-breasted hottie you just saw a split second ago.
It’s just that for girls, that unconscious process lengthens over time.
Like cookies in the oven or seeds on the ground.
Guys who aren’t sure if she likes it or not will want to force the issue. Like opening the oven door or digging up the seeds.
But if your unconscious hasn’t triggered yet, forcing the decision into your conscious mind will ruin the process.
Which means it will kill any chance it gets.
This can be the hardest thing for a man to do. But if his unconscious is in the process of being attracted to you, MAKE IT HAPPEN.
Don’t talk about it, don’t try to get any kind of validation or reassurance.
Think of the female attraction as Fight Club.
Do you remember the first rule of the fight club? NEVER talk about Fight Club.
Let the seeds of attraction grow. NEVER ask her to consciously agree that she likes you, or that she is being attracted to you, or that you two had fun the other night.
Just assume it’s happening and let it happen for a bit more.
When the point of no return passes, when she is totally interested in you and can’t get enough of you, YOU WILL KNOW.
If you are not sure, IT HAS NOT HAPPENED YET.
Until then, let it happen.
And of course, using the triggers of the unconscious mind to help you get there will give you a much better chance.