Is it possible to make a guy regret losing you? Yes, it is, and you don’t even have to be cruel or vindictive about it. If you try to use revenge as a way to make him regret losing you, in the end it will only come to bite you. If you are still madly in love with your man even though he left you or did something that forced you to leave him, then there are ways to make him beg you to withdraw him. This is how you can make him think of you constantly and make him want you desperately.
The first thing you will need to do is break contact for a while. Generally, this should be a period of 2 to 3 weeks. During this time, you won’t be calling, texting, or emailing your man, and if he tries to contact you, you just don’t reply or reply by telling him that you think it’s best if you both have some space right now. If you are forced to see him because he has the same classes, the same job, or hangs out in the same places, be polite and friendly, but don’t engage in long conversations.
Breaking contact is the first step in making a guy regret losing you because you need to make him miss you. If you are not talking to him, it will drive him crazy thinking about where he might be and what he might be doing. You will be on his mind constantly and he will miss every minute that he is not with you.
You have to be firm about the no-contact rule because if you reply to a text message, call him, send him an email, or leave him messages on his Facebook and MySpace pages, then he can’t miss you because you’re still around. Also, never approach him if you are emotionally distressed. You want to remain strong and confident if you want him to regret losing you and desperate to recover. Seeing that you’re fine and happy without him will blow his mind and make him want you all over again.
If he left you, then he may think that he has all the power in the relationship. He probably expects you to be sad, lonely, and depressed without him. Make him want you by hanging out with friends and having fun. You don’t feel sad and depressed. He won’t be able to bear the thought of you hanging out with other people having fun and being happy. When he starts to feel like he can’t have you, that’s when he starts loving you again.
After a while, when he starts to regret losing you, he will try to make contact, but don’t give up just yet. If you decide to pick up the phone, be polite, but keep your conversations short. Keep the power dynamic in your favor by being the first to end phone calls. To make a guy regret losing you, you have to drive him crazy thinking about you and what he has to do to get you back. When he wants to talk to you or hang out, and you just give him a little bit of your time, he’ll keep wanting you more and more because he’s not getting enough of you.
When things get to that stage, you will be in full control of the situation.